The S&W M&P
The ladies really seem drawn to this gun, I've been bringing Lady D's out to the classroom & the women like both the looks & feel of the gun.
With the interchangeable back straps, it's near custom fit for any hand.
Perhaps I'll have to add an XD-M so they can compare the two, as the old style XD is the second choice, the ladies seem to steer clear of the Glock mainly due to it's monolith styling, & even the 17 seems bulky in the hands of a smaller female. The M&P just has better lines to the eye, & seems more stylish than the Glock
Of course choice is a personal thing, nothing wrong with a Glock if thats what you like, but even the lady that had the Glock, really liked the looks & feel of the M&P